It All Starts With the Heart
We could hope forever that our lives would change, but everything will stay the same until our heart changes. This is a core teaching of Jesus and the prophets of old– “Return to me with all your heart. . . rend your heart and not your garments” (Joel 2:12-13). “For it is from within, from the human heart, that evil intentions come” (Mark 7:21).
So how do we change this deep, inner part of us?
How can we renew this part of ourselves and live less confused and more centered?
The answer is that God alone can change our inner being and bring new life. By sheer will power we cannot hope to change. At best, our hearts condemn us and deceive us.
And yet, our will — our deepest intentions can be turned toward God. We can begin to hunger and thirst for righteousness (Matthew 5:6). We can in fact hear the words of Jesus and begin to put them into practice. We can live as wise and sensible people rather than fools who build on the sand (Matthew 7:24-27).
The way forward is to set our minds on things above. When we take this simple step, we create space for God’s spirit to convict, encourage, and guide our hearts.
Take a passage like Psalm 16:8 and make it your verse for the week.
“I have set the Lord always before me. Because he is at my right hand I will not be shaken.” Repeat this simple sentence until it becomes a part of you.
Let it remind that the Lord is present. That he is at your right hand. That you don’t need to be rocked, agitated, upset, distressed, or disturbed. Where are those emotions coming from and why? The Lord is with you now; let him determine what your agenda will be, what your thoughts will be, what your emotions will be, what your relationships with others will be like.
If you find yourself restless, ask God to bring you peace. Ask for his insight and wisdom. You might even take up the rest of Psalm 16 as a way of instructing your heart.
Keep in mind that your heart will wander and vacillate until you take up a plan to grow spiritually from the inside out. The next turmoil will cause you to flip flop just as the last one did.
“The secret of transformation into Christ-likeness is to realize that if you change the inside, the outside will follow. You wash the cup on the inside, and usually the outside gets clean too. But if you don’t wash the inside, the outside will be a problem still, no matter what you do. Jesus comes to bring us the resources of genuine human fulfillment by the transformation of the inner life of the individual” (Dallas Willard, “Introducing Spiritual Formation”)



